Have you noticed that the best things are rarely on the front shelf? Just go to your local book store, which books are on the front shelf? I bet its neither Shakespeare nor Charles Dickens. What about restaurants and bars, how is it that the best ones hide in the narrow alleys, and the bad ones are always in the center of attention and are on display. I wonder if the same applies to people too, maybe all the good people are hard to find, and they hide in the places we least expect.
Hello, my name is Ben; I am 27 years old, and I work as an IT for a newspaper. I will describe myself how I have been described by all my friends and ex-girlfriend’s “you’re a nice guy." Now I know most of you ladies just ran in horror because you think, "there is no way a nice guy can exist" right? Well here I am a standing testament to good upbringing and solid values. I am also a nerd; I will give a moment for some of you to slink away quietly before I continue. I love video games, anime, computers, programming and almost all things that go along with being a nerd. I love conventions and seeing all the cool costumes, although I tend not to dress up myself. I am a rare breed of nerd; I have social skills, and I know how to talk to girls (most of the time).
Being a nerd is a big part of me, but my biggest part is being a hopeless romantic. I have a big heart, and I can be very creative and romantic when I get the chance to be. Maybe I have watched too many romantic movies, but I know that kind of love and that kind of adventurous relationship can be made a reality if you try hard enough for it.
I just wish people would realize that you don't have to play the stupid games. You don't have to pretend that you're only half interested, you don't have to wait x number of days before calling, you don't have to apologize for being yourself, or any of that other garbage that goes along with this whole silly ritual we call dating.
I know this is a long message, but I am almost done I assure you. What I want is very simple, I want true love. I want someone I can text all day and never have to wonder how she feels because she tells me without asking. I want to leave the childish world of dating behind and have a proper adult mature relationship with someone amazing. I want to take you on fantastic adventures and try new things in this world with you. I want you to feel wanted and appreciated every day, and I want to feel the same in return.
If you made it this far, then you might have a shot, message me.