I think for now, all I'm looking for is a friend. Not to say that I don't have any, but there are certain things I can't do with my male friends that are more fun with female friends. No, I'm not talking booty calls, cochinas, I love going to musicals, wine tasting, enjoy nature, those sort of things, museums, art galleries. I consider myself a mans man, but I occasionally don't mind handing in my man card.
Remember some of the greatest relationships are born from great friendships. Is there such a thing as a perpetual platonic relationship as its only possible between husbands and wives.
I have a 3 year old who's with me full time, she is my world, and she will always be first. I can fail at many things in my life, but being a great father that's more awesome than unicorns that sneezes gummy bears will not be one of them, I'm going to earn my #1 Father mug :) . On that note, if you want to have play dates, we can always test those waters.