Overall I live a pretty simple life, I'm pretty chilled laid back guy, I go to school and go to work. I don't go out as much as I like, due to the fact I believe in the words Work Hard Now, Have Fun Later. I really do believe that the key to success and happiness lies between the grace of god and your will to strive for your goals. I listen to music consciously and I choose what enters my ears, like how a vegetarian chooses what goes into their mouth.
I take a less is more; keep it simple approach to my life. Finding solutions to questions and avoiding stress. I have no guilt in spending an entire day (foregoing necessary errands) just to recharge by walking and thinking of the many innocuous questions that permeate my mind - I've been on a scientific bent for the past several years; our universe is a truly amazing place and knowing I'm part of it puts a smile on my face.
I really enjoy living in the city; everything is at your fingertips if you want. Yet I am very comfortable entertaining myself with a book, going on a photo excursion, or a trip to the Field - taking in one of the many great exhibits, or playing guitar. None the less I have a feeling that any of these activities can be truly enhanced by sharing them with someone.
I am a complete romantic and I really enjoy the energy that can be present in a great date. The attentiveness to each other, the desire to touch, and the memorizing of the tiny nuances of a personality that can be played over the next day when your are by yourself. Or even the spark of bonding when you both agree on a certain point of view... Ya I've really got to get out more.
I have a pretty high bar for standards for a girl. But i figure if I don't know what i want, how will I know what I'm looking for. So i'll do the same and here it goes lol...It would be refreshing to meet a woman who is confident, strong and knows herself and can be perceptive enough to peel back the facade I tend to lay over the musician, the humorist, the actor, and the writer.
I love girls who have their head on straight, or at least have an idea with what they want. I do prefer a girl with future direction because I pretty much know where I want to be in the future. I see it this way, if a girl has goals of her own it will only push me harder to meet my goals also, it's motivating to me. If a girl doesn't have no idea where she want to be that's fine with me also, I font expect everyone to have the same direction as me. As long as she understands where I coming from, I guess that's all that really matters at the end. A girl has to understand that about me. It doesn't mean that I can't be there for her at that second, doesn't mean that I'm not there for her. Im honestly tired of all these girls who can't hold a conversation and cant hold my attention.