I know it’s cliché, but I find it hard to write an online profile for myself. It’s much easier (and more natural, I believe) to discover all the little things about someone special as the friendship evolves over time. I am a creative, intelligent, and passionate woman. I enjoy hearty laughter, thoughtful conversations, and sincerity of character in others. I love the arts, and in the past have worked as a professional theatre actor and director. I write plays and musicals in my spare time, and love to play the piano.
I work at a private university in the Atlanta area, and I love being a part of such a transformative time in the lives of our students and seeing how they grow and change. I love people, building friendships and lasting bonds. I feel that as we gain more and more ways to conveniently stay in touch with each other, we are becoming more detached and disconnected. There is nothing better than sitting down and having a conversation, spending time together in the real world. Emotional intimacy is created by sharing experiences and creating special moments together.
I am a very down-to-earth and sincere woman. I am warm, kind, and fiery. I am intelligent and curious. I am significantly overweight, but I don’t let it define who I am. I am working very hard to change my lifestyle in regards to eating and exercise. My goal is to be healthy and active, and to live a long and fruitful life. Two years ago I lost a significant amount of weight, and in the course of a year completed eight 5K’s, two 10K’s, and a sprint triathlon. I have since gained weight, but I have reversed that, and want to get back to being active like that again.
I’m looking for someone who is, above all, sincere, honest, and genuine. Intelligence, diverse interests, and the desire and ability to talk about them are also important. Emotional availability is a must, I want to be with a man who is in touch with his emotions and wants to share them with me. A man who likes to cuddle while listening to music or watching a movie, or reading a book together. I am a very physically affectionate woman, and I like to be playful.
Losing weight and being healthy are of the utmost importance to me. With that being said, I don’t want anyone who wants me simply because they are attracted to big women, I want a man to love me for me. I want to find someone to whom healthy life habits are also a priority.
Being in the arts, I have many gay friends. If this is a problem for you, then we are not going to be right for each other. I am looking for someone who respects and is able to love and accept others, even if he doesn’t agree with their lifestyles or opinions. I’m very open-minded, and I want someone who feels the same way.
I want someone who wants to take the time to really get to know each other, building the solid foundation of a friendship and respect first. Sexual intimacy without a commitment isn’t going to happen, because I want to be sure of the person I give my heart to.