I'm not a fan of drama. Though I'm still on the younger side, I've been there and done that. I don't necessarily believe in the sparks that Cosmo wants me to believe in, as I've been burned by those sparks in the past. That does not make me a pessimist, if anything, I feel I am a realist. My experiences have taught me to look below the surfas, and to realize that a good relationship will last longer if it is based on meeting each other's needs - not on having 6-pack abs.