I am very open minded. I believe laughter is magic - it is the best medicine, it can turn a terrible day around, turn that frown upside down. Dog lover. Veteran, filmmaker, photography student. Completely self supportive. Looking for a mate to spend the golden years with. I am attracted to older men - the wisdom, the life, the events they have lived through and their unyielding thirst to share that information. I am more interested in older men than younger man. It has nothing to do with being labeled a "cougar". It has to do with substance and having lived a life worth sharing.