I like to have my friends over for dinner and I like to do long bike rides for myself or for charity. In the middle of my last ride along the Potomac I stopped for a bit to sit and watch the river and was peacefully happy.
At a concert I recently went to I was standing down front and the opening band was playing and people didn't seem that into it. I thought "I dunno if I should get into this and dance like I want to - other people aren't dancing. No, I should definitely dance" and I did. And I made some new friends.
I work in a data driven field, but work isn't all of who I am. I walk to the farmers market every Sunday and I like to follow it with some coffee shop time where I read the city paper or New Yorker. I believe in being a regular at places.