Just to be upfront and honest - I want a relationship. A real honest relationship.
I don't want to be someone's fetish.
I believe in happily ever after. I want a picket fence with kids and all the happy bells and whistles.
I'm not looking for just a one-night-stand, or even just someone to have sex with. Lately it seems like that's all people want. I don't want to be someone's fetish. If that's all you want, then please move on.
THAT being said..............
i'm always wondering how i'm supposed to summarize myself in a few paragraphs. but i'll try..
short basics: 38, single, strawberryblondehead , liberal, terrapin and redskins fan, loving, loyal, girlgeek, lovable.
i like to think that i'm a pretty great person. i love to laugh and the ability to make me laugh is one of the most important things that i look for in a man. i'm a kid at heart and love joking around and having fun, but i know when to be serious and also enjoy having conversations about any random topic. i'm very open minded and easy going, so i'm looking for the same in another person. also very passionate.. about everything.
i'm also realistic enough to know that this thing called life isn't always sugary sweet. i want to find someone to share the good times with, and get through the rough patches with. everything in life is always better when you have someone to share it with.
i am at the point in my life where i want to focus on my future, and not just continue to feel like i'm constantly casually dating. i'm looking for someone to make me happy in all aspects of my life. not just the sexual or the physical. but i want someone who compliments my shortcomings, as i'll hopefully do the same for theirs. someone who i can share my dreams with, and make both of ours true. someone to discover the world with together.
finally... my body is a constant work-in-progress. i truly don't believe something like that should get in the way of finding happiness... however sometimes it does. so if you wouldn't be interested because i don't have the perfect body, then please don't bother. yes, i'm losing weight and feeling a lot better about myself.... but it is for me and my health - not because of any other reasons.