I'm very friendly and outgoing, light-hearted, funny, trustworthy and affectionate, compassionate, sensual, intelligent, ambitions and unique. I enjoy being outdoors doing just about anything you can name, in fact I keep my tennis racket, sleeping bag and tent in the trunk of my car just so I can live with spontaneity. At the end of the day I really want a sweetheart that I can kiss and cuddle up with, have deep and stimulating conversations, laugh and share a meaningful bond. I try to treat people the way I want to be treated and I expect the same consideration and respect.
I'm diplomatic - a lover and not a fighter and prefer to end a fight instead of dragging things out. And although I stand by my beliefs I wont infringe on yours. I'm an easily loyal and faithful partner and expect the same in my mate. My ideal partner enjoys socializing as much as I do.. not out every night and not sitting a home every night. I like a good balance of both.I like someone classy and cultured who knows which wine to order with dinner and can discuss a wide variety of topics. He also enjoys a beer and likes sitting around a bonfire hanging with friends.
He only has to be handsome to me and may not necessarily attractive in the traditional sense. I find superficiality distasteful.
The man who appeals to me is a person of substance, an intellectual who can hold my attention and ultimately win my heart. I value deep, authentic relationships.. I can do small talk.. but not a fan.. and you don't want to talk your way into the friend zone keep the small talk to a minimum.
And on an additional note, I don't like basic grammatical errors...and I see many men on this site do..I know you're only human, but you may want to try spell check.
I'm kind of a snob about words.. so if you aren't articulate, well-rounded and respectful I don't think we will be compatible. I respect a man who says what he means and means what he says. If you don't understand my previous comments, sorry, I won't be interested in you.
All of that being said I believe there's a man out there somewhere who's subtle sweetness will give me butterflies in my stomach, who's kiss will make my pulse race and who's strength can comfort and ease my mind. I'm a romantic. So if you come bearing flowers, wine, and poetry...that's great.. certainly doesn't hurt. Also, I'm giving and my lover's pleasure is as important as my own.
I'm soft and sensual and don't like anything to be rough... but that's a conversation for a different time and place.
I'm open to dating all ethnicity's.