My introduction

I'm a 32 year old BBW looking for a partner in crime. Let me be clear about that. I am looking for someone to have fun with, someone to hang out with, someone that can bring something to my life and someone whose life I can bring something to. I AM NOT LOOKING TO ACTUALLY PERFORM CRIMES. Isn't it ridiculous that I have to even say that?? I've been divorced since September of 2011 and finally feel that I am ready to start putting myself back out into the dating world. I have a wonderful family and a great set of friends. I spend most of my current free time with them but have found as of late, that I am craving companionship that my friends and family can’t provide. I work full time and go to school full time working toward 2 separate degrees as well as 2 different certifications (Microsoft and VMWare). Work is extraordinarily time consuming, but I find it personally fulfilling, as fulfilling as something can be that you are required to do to earn money. I enjoy reading, gaming (console), and it seems as of late, going to live concerts. I enjoy all types of literature from horror, fluff, RPG, Fantasy, Non-Fiction, etc. I have been a console gamer since I was 6. I have most consoles and prefer first person shooter, RPG, and strategy type games. I also love party games. As far as music goes, I love all types and artists ranging from Aerosmith (just saw them in Aug 2012) to Kid Rock (just saw him in Jun) to CCR. I am really looking for someone that has their own life but has found that something is missing. That’s how I feel. I have a very full life, and I don’t need someone in my life that needs to talk to me 400 times a day or has to see me every night of the week to feel secure. I am looking for someone that has their own life and that wants to share that life with someone but doesn’t need to be attached at the hip to another person to do that. Basically, I don’t like clingy. I’m a very independent lady. And I am looking for an independent man that is looking for the same thing.