Funny, Analytical, Crazy, Erudite, Brilliant, Organized, Observant, Kind, Hobbit-like, Odd, Brainy, Big-hearted, Ingenious, Tender, Entertaining, Reader, Intense, Clever
I recently had a chance to ask a relationship expert why is it that no matter how kind & helpful I act, woman just ignore or dismiss me. She replied that a secure, confident women would notice & be intrigued by my gentlemanly ways. So that’s what I’m looking for: a secure, confident woman who doesn’t dismiss me because I’m one of those “nice guys”. Also one of my female friends suggested I give online dating a try & prove gentlemen are still out there & available. I chose BBW personals plus.com because I really love full figured women. To me, real women are curvy.
One of the ironic issues about my search for a romantic partner is this:
Ask almost any other guy what he wants in a woman & he’ll describe her physical appearance or traits or what actress/singer/super model she looks like. Ask me & I’ll describe her personality, what she’s interested in, her character. Other guys almost always have girlfriends, I’m most often single.
My life has finally settled down to the point where I am ready for the next romantic partner or new friend. What I’m also searching for is a female companion to hang out & spend my free time with. I’ve done all the club/bar nights I’ll ever want to, so that’s right out. I’m looking for a woman to laugh, watch DVDs/movies, play pc/video games & maybe even dine out with. I love to share my gift of laughter & wit with my friends. An Ex once told me I like to “perform” for them. I do enjoy the sound of them laughing & talking. I also enjoy it when they make me laugh as well. I've had more then enough drama in my life, yet I know when to be serious & sincere. To me, what good is being an adult if I can’t play like a child when I am able? As of right now, I spend most of my free time writing (finally working on that book), reading, & watching movies. I’m one of those intellectual/creativ e types that live inside my head.
I want to find a special woman to share my wit & creativity with. I’m looking for a woman who’ll stimulate me creatively, emotionally, intellectually, and maybe romantically. She needs to have a huge, healthy sense of humor. She needs to see the positive aspects of comedy, wit & humorous crazy stuff. She needs to be ready to play or chill at home watching TV or DVDs sometimes. She needs to have a sharp mind & ready wit to keep up with me, maybe even lead the way. Also, I like it if she makes the first move. I’m really shy at first & love it when she asks me out. I like it when she communicates her wants & desires. I can’t stand it when she doesn’t tell what she’s thinking or feeling. I won’t know until she tells me or expresses it to me. I like to know up-front if she’s interested in just friendship or something more.
My friends describe me as funny, crazy, intelligent, compassionate, a great dad, & a good listener.