I've been single a long time, was raising 3 kids by myself. They are all grown and out of the house. I am still close with all of them, they are my best friends. I love family and family times. It's my turn to find some love. I believe in love, I believe in God, I believe the best about people. I treat others like I would like to be treated. Not everyone you meet, works out, I've kissed a few frogs but still looking for that one that will click. I own my own business, going on 4 years now, I also have a 3 day a week part time job, I live with a female roommate, I been here for 2 years, she says I am the best roommate ever....not a slob, don't like slobs either....I pay my bills and I work hard, you should too. Sometimes, life can be stressful and I need a good massage, I give good ones too. I enjoy a drink occassionally, I have a beer with pizza or wings. I know I am a big girl but I need to keep losing weight, for health reasons, looking for an activity partner. I have inherited a 4 year old Shihtzu. He's real lazy so we get along fine. lol Don't think I am much of a dog person....but I spoil him rotten. I would like to find some one to spoil and be spoiled in return. I been married twice. All kids by the same Dad. lol. I was faithful to both my husbands, you should be too. I am not a liar, ask my kids, now I have learned, sometimes it's better to kept your opinion to yourself. Well my sweetie, if you have read down this far, we need to talk. You should have a healthy sex drive, which means still being able to get it up to maintain a healthy monogamous sex life. (that's honesty) I like being sexy with the one I care about, and caring about someone, that takes time...if you are not willing to put in the time to find out, then please just be decent enough to pass me by. One last thing, if you do not post a picture, I tend to feel that you are hiding something, crazy huh!