So here I am, a good hearted person looking foremost for a good friend.Then we'll just go from there.No expectations. I'm not looking for Mr.Perfect..just perfect for me. Would be nice to find someone who actually wants to discover all sides of me and what makes me tick. And who can appreciate what they find. Even if its different from themselves. Isn't that whats its all about-discovering each other? Everyone seems to want instant gratification these days. Biggest turn offs are superficial, arrogant,or lying people. I dont consider this a game. I take it seriously.
I consider myself a simple woman who loves conversation and has no problem speaking my mind. So if you like only a one layered woman, I am definitely not her. I have a silly-sarcastic sense of humor. I just love to laugh and joke and I'm very affectionate and sentimental at the same time. I love things like the rain. Listening to the rain fall is underrated if you ask me. And I have a fascination with the moon.Could stare at it for hours.Just does something to me inside.So sitting under the moon with a drink ,a friend and some good conversation is my idea of a great time! For me, the simple things are the finer things in life.
But I'm not looking for someone who is exactly like me or has my exact interests necessarily,but my same values. Honesty,loyalty,and respect. If you have those, Im convinced the rest can be worked out. I need someone who is not afraid to talk but has to be a great listener too.Hearing my thoughts and being open to them while staying true to himself and never giving up. Someone, that together,we can bring out the best in each other. (some think that this is a wish list..I think it is a "given") And lastly I am the ever hopeless romantic.Sad but it seems romance has disappeared.I hope there is still someone truly romantic left out there who doesn't want it to die. To quote my favorite line from a Jimmy Buffet song, "I just wanna live happily ever after every now and then"...So is it so much to ask to find someone that just "gets me"..and stays anyway?
****Just wanted to say that with all due respect, I don't want to only see your muscles, your car, your sunglasses or your pets. I'm sure they're great but I'm here to see you. (Current you). Show me your eyes and your smile. Those will tell me everything I need to know! Look, I'm here for the right reasons. And I don't want anyone to respond that isn't. If you cant be true to yourself then there is no sense being on these sites. Because eventually you'll be found out. And the only thing it accomplished was wasted time and energy. So be yourself no matter how it turns out.