So here we are ladies, on the beach of hungry hearts, all of us wanting to try love again. Some of you are looking for six pack abs while others put less importance on appearance and are looking for common interests. The divorce rate is high but we all believe that if we are more selective this time, our new spouse will share the century mark with us. The challenge online is to keep a prospect's interest, while he or she is being relentlessly flattered by many other suitors. I do believe that with patience beautiful things can come out of the online experience. It is important to make sure that you are getting out more than you are putting into this adventure.