I am very serious about finding a long term relationship, that will be lasting... Mentally in my life I am at a point in which I want to in an LTR and wouldn't mind it leading to marriage. I want a partner that shares and works towards common goals, and where every day is not a chance for drama.
I want to be with someone in my life. Someone who will be the first person I call when I have exciting news because I know you are my biggest cheerleader, and want to hear what I have to say, and I want to be that person for you. I want you to be the person I wake up thinking of in the morning and the one who crosses my thoughts when you go to sleep at night. I want to be the person you don't just want to live with, but the one you can't live without, and I want the same for myself.
I'm one heck of a cook(Lasagna from scratch, Stuffed Chicken Breast, Enchiladas, Potato Soup, the list goes on, did I mention deserts like cheesecake, fudge and bananas foster), I also do laundry, dishes, make beds, clean, make sure my loved one has lunch to take with them to work, and dinner on the table when they walk thru the door at night.
Physical attraction can be gone in an instant with an accident, or with age and time. Attractive to me means the whole package, while you may not be beautiful to others, you may be beautiful to me and beautiful to me means not just looks, but personality, intelligence, and attitude. Good hygiene is important, and Barbie is not a good proportional design for a woman. Barbies are to perfect and without flaws, and I find many times it is the flaws that make one attractive to another person. TV can always be DVR'd these days and I dont have to sit in front of a TV to make my day complete. I would be anything but honest if I didn't tell you that I do have several shows I do watch and really love, but as I said, they can be recorded and watched at another time. I would rather hold a conversation with you over dinner or a glass of wine then plop down in front of the TV unless its something we both enjoy together.
I do not mind pampering my loved one with attention and love to spend time with her. I am not jealous, nor am I one of those who has to know where you are every second of the day, but do look forward to a phone call, text message or just you coming home in the evening.
You had a life and friends before me and I am sure that will continue, so I am not looking to change anyone's life, I just want to be included.
If you are looking for someone that will take care of you, spoil you with attention, be there for you, then I am your guy.