I usually tell it like it is sprinkled with a dash of tact and a pinch of restraint. I'm a bit of a smart ass and sarcastic at times but all in good fun. I do have a filter between my brain and my mouth and I know there is a time and a place for everything. I'm educated, have my own place, own car, a job, no ex drama and I have 2 great kids.
Initially it's about attraction and chemistry of coarse, but after that everything should just fall into place if it's meant to be. I don't have a checklist of likes/dislikes I think a guy should adhere to. When you "click" all that just flows without effort.
I might be labeled voluptuous, curvy, thick, full figured or even a BBW but I try to lead a healthier lifestyle. My ethnicity? I am Portuguese/Hawaiian & Czeck.