*Of course I would like to find the one for me but if that were to happen, we would be the best of friends first.*
Hi, my name is Nelson.
I'm not really fond of talking about myself but I guess its kind of necessary. First and foremost I have 3 beautiful daughters. My youngest who is a wonderful young lady (8) lives between her mother, myself, and her grandparents. She is very loved and has stability in her life. My oldest (12)(15) who are just as amazing, live in forida and have had me in their lives their whole lives since I just moved here from Florida. I don't have baby mama drama because I handle my business. If that is just too much for you then please move on. Maybe saying this first turns off a lot of women but I am an honest man and I love my children. Just because I have made relationship mistakes in the past, my girls shouldn't have to suffer if my partner resents them.
I guess there are a few things that are most important to me that I can convey to you. I think above all else, honesty is most valued, followed by respect, communication, trust, and compromise. Sure there are other values but I think these are core to a successful relationship. I also believe in that old addage, "say what you mean and mean what you say", because that's the kind of person I am. I don't have time in my life for mind games, players, drama, or a ridiculous high maintenance woman. If that is you, find someone else because I have been through it and I'm not your guy. I'm a hopeless romantic, full of passion, and I admit I can be a sensative guy sometimes. I know I am a good listener and I'm not afraid to give my honest opinion when its necessary. I don't believe in going to bed mad because tomorrow is a gift and tomorrow is not guaranteed. Most of the time I think I am right but I am not afraid to admit when I am wrong or if I have made a mistake. I truly enjoy a healthy intelligent conversation as well as a healthy debate. I am always trying to educate myself in whatever subjects or topics that interest me.
Okay, so you have made it this far! Ha! I have a fun side too! I do know how to have a good time! I have a great sense of humor, I can take a joke as well as crack them, I love to laugh and be silly, and even wrestle. I can be spontaneous and live life in the moment.
Life is short and full of wonder and I don't want to go at it alone. I would like to share it with that special someone who loves me for me. I will give it my all if you can do the same. Are you ready for something real?