My perfect match would be someone who I could sit beside and doing absolutely nothing, and yet feel perfectly happy.
I have had the experiences of life and have lived enough of my life gotten the “kinks” out so to speak. Not wanting you to wisk me away on your white horse just yet...Because I seek first....A Friend!! If more develops...then that is OK as well. My kids are grown but they are a very active part of my life. I have 3 boys, 2 who play college football, and a daughter who has passed away.
I love being in the country. The older I get...The more I desire it. I am NOT the type of person that dates multiple people. My desire is a long term and monogamous relationship. I feel I would better match with someone that is NOT newly single. We would just be in totally different places in what we are seeking relationship wise. I am NOT into having multiple relationships. I do not feel we can really get to know each other when trying juggle multiple relationships. It does not mean that I am ready to be committed tomorrow. Just the fact I want to get to know someone without the DRAMA that juggling multiple relationships can bring.
I am strong on affection, STABLE, NO DRAMA, practical, easy going and independent enough to be able to take care of myself. I love God and have a strong faith, I have a good job and a small circle of great friends. I'm fairly laid back about the small stuff, long on patience. I am not the fancy or high maintenance type. I like the outdoors, can get my nails dirty without freaking out. BUT I do like getting dressed up and having a nice time out as well. I can dress for the occasion and I am pretty much comfortable in any setting. I am not the 20 year old Barbie type BUT not the "Big Beautiful Woman" either. I do have a few extra pounds. A little fluffiness so to speak. So if you have a hang up on that...then...do not read any further because we would not be a good match. I am very much comfortable in my own skin...SEXINESS IS ALL IN THE ATTITUDE.
I do not have a specific type of man that catches my eye per say Just be a "MANLY MAN" I like the country boy all the way to the business man someone who can challenge me respectfully, Someone who has a kind loving spirit, not selfish or self centered not seek to control me nor me you. Be able to value my contribution to our relationship someone who gives affection naturally. Be thoughtful and respectful be a man of integrity. Chemistry is more important to me than you being “The Sexiest Man Alive”. Sexy and romantic come in MANY different forms. I'm not particularly looking for someone with the chiseled body, someone who's softer around the edges is equally attractive.