I'm a fiercely loyal friend, a sympathetic ear, a well of useless and useful information, an 80's music lover, and a brutally honest and blunt communicator.
I am looking for is a strong, assertive, independent, emotionally and financially stable man who has good hygiene, sympathy, empathy, kindness, intelligence, time and desire for an amazing, monogamous relationship with an amazing woman - me!
You should message me if you're real, honest, assertive, kind, independent, mature, fun, quirky, employed, sincere, decisive, serious, silly, accepting, confident, intelligent and interested. If you understand that these traits are not mutually exclusive, and can coexist quite nicely in the same person, then let's talk. If the idea of more "traditional" roles for men and women appeals to you, then hurry up and hit that message button!
If you want to go and hear some live music, walk the beach at night, comfort me when my Mets lose, take over control of the grill, enjoy some home cooking, complete with a big glass of sangria or one of my famous cosmos or chocolate martinis, then reach out and let's talk.
If I had to describe my ideal man, it would be one that is close to my height, strong shoulders with just a touch of muscle in his upper body, tattoos are appreciated but not necessary, a warm smile, strong hands, and a bit of a stomach pooch. Yes, I actually prefer a less-than-perfect physique on a man. I'm far from perfect, and I'm old enough and mature enough to realize that substance is more important than physical attributes. Stimulate my mind and emotions, and you will be the most beautiful person in the world, and I will only have eyes for you!