I am 43 year old, fully divorced male BBwpersonalplus admirer(admirer in ALL of body, heart, mind and soul!)who knows what he wants in life and in the lady of his dreams(or at least some fantastic friends and one never knows what can happen from that!).I am a very hard worker. And i work as am Civil Engineer.I have my own home and something to drive. I do not live with or depend on Mom and dad, though it is nice to have family who live in the same town as me, even though we are not really close. I share my home with my One and Only Son with cats and hopefully one day, with someone very special. If you are a real cat person too, that is a big plus, though dogs are fine as well. A bonuse would be someone who truly appreciates big old Victorian houses as I own one and it would truly be an interesting project to partake in with my special lady and have her thoughts and ideas form intricate parts of redecorating this old house!